LifePoint Assessment - Blue Ridge Bible Church

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Hello there! We’re glad that you have a desire to be intentional in the relationships present in your life. This assessment is a tool to help prompt thought. We want to empower you to grow! After you submit the assessment, we’ll provide some simple suggestions and tools to help you in your journey.

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Are you married or single?*

Married

Single

Divorced

Widowed

Do you plan to remain single, or would you like to be married one day?*

I want to remain single

I am interested in being married

Do you have children?*

Yes

Do you have grandchildren?*

Yes

Married Couples

Briefly evaluate your own level of intentionality over the past couple of months.

Nurturing Intimacy

Had a “date night” twice or more per month to focus on one another without distractions

Wrote a note, gave a flower or some other tangible expression of love at least twice per month

Called during the day, sat down to chat, took walks together, or some other time of focused, non-task driven communication at least three times per week

Prayed with my spouse at least twice per week

Demonstrated meaningful touch and/or verbal affirmation at least once per day

Avoiding Dangers

Took steps to reduce risk to my marriage in vulnerable areas (bad temper, relationships outside of my marriage, demeaning language, etc.) by maintaining boundaries, increasing accountability, etc.

Took care of myself physically and emotionally to be the best lifelong spouse I can be

Admitted I was wrong and apologized and/or forgave before going to bed after conflicts with my spouse

I have been intentional about building a lifelong thriving marriage.

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I am confident that my marriage will last until one of us dies.

Strongly disagree	Disagree	Neutral	Agree	Strongly agree

I believe my marriage is, for the most part, God-honoring.

Strongly disagree	Disagree	Neutral	Agree	Strongly agree

Parents and Grandparents

Briefly evaluate your own level of intentionality over the past couple of months.

Parents

Connected relationally with my children daily (help with homework, eat together, etc.)

Did something special with my children (hobby, ice cream date, etc.) twice per month

Created an opportunity for discussing my beliefs and values with my children at least once per week

Prayed with my children (including meals, bedtime, etc.) at least five times per week

Admitted I was wrong and apologized and/or forgave before going to bed after conflicts with my children

Served together and/or participated in an intergenerational faith experience (father/daughter banquet, local missions event, etc.) with my children at least once in the past couple of months

Grandparents

Did something to connect with my grandchildren (a letter, phone call, etc.) at least once per month

Did something to help my grandchildren inherit a strong spiritual legacy at least once per month

Prayed for my grandchildren at least five times per week

I have been intentional about helping my children/grandchildren build a strong faith.

Strongly disagree	Disagree	Neutral	Agree	Strongly agree

I am confident my children/grandchildren will be prepared with a foundation of strong Christian faith for adulthood.

Strongly disagree	Disagree	Neutral	Agree	Strongly agree

Single Adults

Briefly evaluate your own level of intentionality over the past couple of months.

I Want to Remain Single

Planned to stay single throughout my life to give time, resources, and attention to Christian ministry

Took proactive steps in learning to be complete in Christ alone and engaging in Christian community

Invested time in my spiritual growth and making an impact for Jesus

Honored God with my body by being sexually pure or repenting of past sexual sin and committing to remain abstinent

I Am Interested in Being Married

Prayed about/for my future spouse and that my future marriage will be God-honoring

Followed God’s design for sex by staying sexually pure or repenting of past sexual sin and committing to remain abstinent until marriage

Took proactive steps toward finding a godly mate by engaging in Christian community and widening my Christian social circle

Invested time in my spiritual growth and making an impact for Jesus

Took steps toward committing where I am today to the Lord: daily trusting His timing and surrendering to how He wants to use me today as a single individual

Attended pre-engagement or pre-marital counseling or other sessions to learn the Christian view of marriage

I have been intentional to honor God with my life and relationships (friends/family/dating).

Strongly disagree	Disagree	Neutral	Agree	Strongly agree

I am confident my future relationships will be God-honoring.

Strongly disagree	Disagree	Neutral	Agree	Strongly agree

Let's Review Your Answers

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Would you like a pastor to follow up with you about this?

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You're not alone in wanting to strengthen areas of your life as you follow Jesus. Let's grow together!

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